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How to write a heartfelt Valentine

It's that time of year and if you're anything like my husband, you'll find it difficult to write a Valentine for your sweetheart. He always tells me how much pressure he feels when he's writing any card but especially Valentine cards. Truthfully, it's probably because I love stationery and everything from picking out a card to writing in it just makes him nervous. Will I like it? Is it a good enough card?

Still, every year he worries and every year he writes the most heartfelt messages in those wonderful cards he so lovingly picks out.

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The key to writing a good Valentine, is to write from your heart.

Sounds pretty simple right? It's absolutely true. But how DO you write from the heart? It's not always easy to do, but it can be done and here are my 3 tips for writing a heartfelt Valentine:

1. Make sure you have of plenty of time.

One of the biggest problems with writing out a card is that most of us usually rush it. You're wrapping a gift in a hurry, you quickly grab a card and then of course, you can't figure out what to say. You're rushed, you're stressed and you need to get it done. That's a perfect recipe for drawing a blank.

Instead, set some time aside for this very special task. Try sitting down with a cup of tea and a little bit of patience. Grab that beautiful card you spent weeks picking out and, of course, your favorite pen and start thinking about your loved one.

What comes to mind when you think of him?

What feelings does she evoke when you're sitting there contemplating how lucky you are to have her? When you start to think about your loved one, all your memories, the things you've been through together, the plans you have for the future, you'll be overcome with lots of beautiful things to put into your message.

2. Write a quick draft.

I don't know about you, but I rarely know exactly how I want to say something even when I know what I want to say. That's where jotting your thoughts down really helps.

On the rare occasion that the words flow, I might write directly on the card, but often, I write down a few of the things I want to say on a separate sheet of paper and piece them together. It doesn't ever take more than simply writing these thoughts out and then stringing them together in my head.

Then, once I sit down to write the card, I know exactly what I want to write and I'm not anxious about it.

3. Allow yourself to feel what you're writing.

Once you've conjured up all the emotions and memories that will help you with that draft, allow yourself to feel them.

Remember that time you ditched class with your sweetheart and spent the day together. Allow yourself to feel that excitement you felt when you got the keys to your first home. Think about the wonder you both felt when you held your firstborn in your arms.

It is when you think about these moments that your words become heartfelt and genuine, because you're reliving those beautiful memories and reminding, not only your sweetheart but yourself how much you really love each other.

Don't just do this for a partner either, it's just as effective with a good friend and specially your children. The key is to really think about this amazing person that you're taking the time to send your love to. Think about all the wonderful ways this person enriches your life. Let your relationship with them fill your mind and heart and it will most certainly come out on paper. 

So those are some of the things I do when I write out the few Valentines I send out each year. Do you do something special to get you in the mood for writing out a Valentine? Let us know in the comments below.

In the meantime, good luck with those Valentines, have fun with them!

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10 comments

Jan 24, 2017

I love writing a draft. Some might think it’s silly because it’s “just a card,” but half the time I start writing my message and end up somewhere completely different than my original thoughts. Then I always want to go back and edit the beginning. :)

Samantha
Jan 24, 2017

I’m sure there will be many nervous people who will appreciate this post for helping them out with that all-important Valentine card!

Lisa Sell
Jan 23, 2017

I really like the pictures of the cards! They are beautiful, both the pictures and the cards !

Julie @ Hello Peaceful Mind
Jan 23, 2017

This is a great way to get people started! What I find the most difficult is writing what I have to say in my heart because I think it can be too much, but when it comes to true love, nothing is overbearing.

Lauren
Jan 23, 2017

Great tips! I am generally pretty good at expressing my feelings, but my hubby isn’t as great, so I think I’ll share this with him :)

Fi Morrison
Jan 23, 2017

These were all great writing tips! :) I’m a sucker for stationery too, hehe! I love writing my boyfriend little notes each week!

xo, Chloe // http://funinthecloset.com/state-mind-wearing-tie-dye/

Chloe
Jan 23, 2017

Thank you for this! Sometimes it’s so easy to just sign a card quickly but I really do believe in the value of a thought out, heartfelt message.

Rebecca Robson
Jan 23, 2017

Great tips! I always need to write a draft (or 2!) before i’m ready to commit something to the card i give my wife.

Bruce Schinkel
Jan 22, 2017

So cute!

Joseyphina
Feb 09, 2016

I loved this piece. It’s so true, sometimes we’re so rushed that we quickly put something together when you know you could’ve done better. Thanks.

Roberto Solano

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